Do we hate what God loves?
I have said it, and I have heard others say it about themselves, “I hate myself”. We know that Jesus told us the following in John 12:25…he who hates his life… save it. At least that is the way so many people remember it said. But those “…” hide something that is so significant. Before this discussion though, we must address something. God does not hate you. God sent His Son to die for you regardless of what you see in yourself. So how can we hate something that God thought was so precious that He had His son put to death for? How can we hate something that God said He wants to be with forever in sweet fellowship? We cannot, and we should not. We should rejoice in how much God loves us, just as we are. Yes, surrender to the work of the Holy Spirit, but we must know and live as though we are completely surrendered to Him and completely accepted by Him.
So, what does the “…” cover? Why the instruction to hate your life? How does that reconcile with the love of God?
John 12:25, He who loves his life loses it, and he who hates his life in this world will keep it to life eternal.
There are a few critical concepts here. 1) The words “his life,” is the basis for the problem. The born-again child of God no longer has “his life.” If you are born-again, a new creation in Christ, then you are not your own. You are bought with a price. The failure to recognize this is the ground for so many battles and losses. We know it in theory but are we surrendering to this truth in actuality? 2) The instruction is not to hate who you are in Christ, but to hate your life “in this world.” Oh, what a difference; “in this world” clarifies everything. Our old man lives in the old world; all that belongs to Satan and God hates that life enough to send His Son to die on the cross that we could die on the cross with Him. What part of ourselves loves the world, its offers, its promises of pleasure, its delight in sin, and its selfishness? The part of us that is not living in Christ and dead to the world. This is the separation and growth into Christ that we are called to. This is the “you” that he said, “he who loves his life, loses it.” This is not the life Christ died for us to live. This is not God's will. It is quite a dangerous place to be.
To clarify this Jesus stated next, “if anyone serves Me, he must follow me.” And this is significant to recognize.
So, hate your old self with all its corruption and sin nature. Hate that which you find in yourself that loves the world. But love who you are in Christ Jesus. Love that you are a work in progress. Love that you are a child of God and loved by God. Accept His powerful, passionate, and deep love for you in Christ and live in it.
Trust in His love, His cross, His blood and the work of His Holy Spirit. Amen.
CJ Cutrone, II








